The pressure around these exams can be intense for both kids and parents. However, with the right support, you can create a space that not only helps your child prepare for exams but fosters a lifelong love of learning. In this article, we’ll share key ways to help your child succeed both in school entrance exams (such as the 11+, 12+ and 13+), as well as in their future studies.
1. Encourage Curiosity and Independence
When it comes to prepping for school entrance exams, structured study sessions are important, but it’s equally important to help your child love learning. Kids who enjoy exploring topics on their own often do better in school.
Encourage your child to dive into subjects they find interesting, even if they aren't exam-related. If they love English, for example, they’ll likely develop a love of reading , analysis and research that helps them later. Hobbies like writing, experiments, or arts can boost their cognitive skills too.
Introduce them to a variety of resources like books, documentaries, and podcasts. You’d be amazed at how much they can learn just by following what they find exciting, which will help them in their exams.
2. Teach Time Management
Rather than cramming at the last minute, teach your child how to manage their time well.
Help them break big tasks into smaller, more manageable parts. Rather than sitting for hours, show them how to set clear goals for each study session. A child who organises specific time slots for reading and practice will build better study habits that will help them later.
Encourage them to use calendars or apps to keep track of deadlines. Involving them in planning helps them take charge of their learning and boosts their organizational skills, which are crucial for school and beyond.
3. Build Emotional Resilience
An often ignored part of preparing for school exams is helping kids deal with stress and anxiety. Children and teenagers can feel overwhelmed, especially with high expectations. Teaching your child to manage these feelings is just as necessary as academic prep.
Create a space where they can talk openly about their worries about exams. Remind them that mistakes are a part of learning, and what matters is how they handle them. Praise their effort instead of just the end result—this helps them understand that skills can grow with hard work.
Help them practice simple relaxation techniques to manage stress. Whether it’s breathing exercises or listening to music, having these tools can make studying less overwhelming. When children feel supported emotionally, they approach challenges with more confidence.
4. Keep a Balanced Routine
It can be easy to become all-consumed with exam prep, but it’s important for your child to find a balance between studying and taking breaks. Well-rounded children who have ample opportunities for relaxation, play, and family-related activities, are often more motivated and focused.
Make physical activity a part of their daily life. Sports, dancing, or even walking can help improve mood and relieve stress. Plus, staying active contributes to better sleep, which is essential for learning.
Encourage creative activities too. Whether it’s drawing, writing, or playing music, these hobbies can provide a great way to relieve stress and develop problem-solving skills.
5. Be a Role Model
Children pick up on how adults behave, so if you want them to thrive, show them the right way. Let them see that learning doesn’t stop when school does. Get involved in discussions and explore new topics together.
Learn alongside your child. If they’re studying a subject, join in by reading a related book or watching a documentary. This not only reinforces that education is a lifelong journey but also gives you both some quality time together.
Also, don’t stress only about grades. Encourage them to enjoy and appreciate the whole learning process. When you both focus on the journey instead of just the outcomes, it makes for a more fulfilling experience.
6. Build Good Study Habits
While doing well on the 13+ is great, it’s just the starting point in their learning journey. By helping your child develop good study habits now, you set them up for success in other areas later. Teach them to review regularly, take breaks, and set realistic goals—these skills will come in handy throughout their education.
Make self-reflection a habit too. After tests or assignments, ask your child what worked and what didn’t. This helps them learn to take charge of their own education.
Maximising your child's potential is about more than preparing them for one exam; it's about equipping them for a future filled with growth, curiosity, and lifelong learning. With your help, they will be ready to succeed academically and in life.
We hope you enjoyed this article and look forward to supporting your child’s love of learning.
Best wishes,