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Co-Ed vs Single Sex Schools: Which Is Best For Your Child?

The advantages and disadvantages of co-educational vs single-sex schools have been hotly contested throughout history, with persuasive arguments on both sides.

According to studies, boys and girls react differently to various learning environments depending on the situation. The question therefore begs, do we segregate children in order to educate them, or is early integration the secret to raising a successful and sociable generation?

On paper, single-sex education appears to have advantages because the outcomes are unquestionably superior. Statistics show that pupils who attend single-gender schools outperform their peers at co-ed schools at GCSE level.

One of the greatest benefits of single-gender schools is inclusivity. Nobody is excluded based on their gender from any club, activity, sport, or course. Children can experiment and attempt new things without being constrained by stereotyped gender roles in this way.

One that has been deemed to be particularly significant in parents' decision-making is the claim that exposure to people of the opposite sex can be distracting.  It is believed that by eliminating this disturbance, the students' whole attention will be directed toward their academic work and extracurricular pursuits. But we are aware that this is a fallacious justification. Because eliminating the boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic from the classroom does not ensure that more time will be devoted to intellectual activities. Contrarily, there is a compelling case that excluding contact with the other sex creates an unsatisfactory and unhealthful relationship with the object of one's affection.

Single-sex institutions frequently promote a sense of family that forges ties that endure well into old age. However, students are taught how to engage with people of the opposing sex in coed institutions.

To aid in the instruction of understanding of interactions between the sexes, these institutions offer a secure and well supervised environment. However, it must be acknowledged that the notion that single-sex schools encourage sexist attitudes is out of date. In single-sex institutions, pastoral care is now recognised as an essential component of a student's development and the curriculum.

Some believe that diversity is a problem in single-sex schools because it causes confusion in pupils who later transfer to coeducational institutions.

However, if a single-sex establishment is associated with one of the opposing gender, as many grammar and public schools are currently, then this can be eliminated.

Over the past 20 years, the number of same-sex educational institutions has decreased by half, and the majority of single-sex schools now provide mixed sixth forms.

Some parents opt for single-sex schools due to their own experiences attending such institutions. Regardless of personal views on the matter, it is undeniable that both types of schools have their benefits. Ultimately, the most important question to ask yourself when making such an important decision is, what type of school is best for my child and their individual needs? Make sure you factor in the type of environment they would thrive in, the school’s values and your child’s own preferences.

If you enjoyed this article and found it useful, share it with someone who might benefit from it too.

Best wishes,

The Tutoress.

How To Start Preparing For The 11+ Exam

“My child’s 11+ exam is next year, how do I start preparing for it?”

This is a great question and one I hear often.

In fact, I wrote a guidebook on this very topic almost a decade ago. It’s rather dated now, especially as the CEM was only introduced in 2013, but I’m hoping to produce an updated version of the book in the nearby future.

In the meantime, here are some tips to help guide you through starting your child’s 11+ prep. These tips are also somewhat applicable to the 7+, 8+, 9+ and 10+ exams.

Be Honest

I know we all think our children are perfect but the unfortunate truth is that not every child is suited to the 11+. Some children don’t have the drive or determination to study for what can feel like hours on end. Some would rather watch TV all day or take part in tons of activities after school than to spend their evenings or holiday periods studying for an exam. Before you even begin to consider the 11+, think about whether your child is naturally bright and be honest with yourself. Does your child have natural academic potential or are they lagging behind academically? Does your child want to sit the exam? Do they want to go to a grammar or independent school? Think about these things and be honest with yourself. Don’t hesitate to ask your child questions and discuss whether they’d like to go through the 11+ process.

Start early

I know that not all parents are fortunate enough to have discovered the 11+ early, but as a general rule of thumb, early preparation makes a tremendous difference. If you can, start laying the foundation for your child’s educational success as early as possible and avoid leaving exam prep to the last minute. Even before you begin working through 11+ books, strengthen your child’s academic foundation by teaching them new vocabulary words and help them to build their English and Maths skills. For instance, it’s a great idea to pick up books that cover topics such as SPAG, arithmetic, mental maths and comprehension.

Begin with research

Research which schools you’re applying for and if possible, consider visiting them as early as possible. Sometimes parents start 11+ preparation and then find out months later that the school they’re applying for doesn’t even test a certain subject so it’s best to know where you’re applying to first. Then you can plan accordingly. It’s also worth reaching out to your target schools and confirming which format their exams are in and which subjects your child will sit exams in. For example, some schools require students to only sit exams in Maths and English, whilst others assess Reasoning as well. Generally, the main exam types are the CEM, GL Assessment, ISEB, CSSE or the standard exam (for independent school entry).

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Start small

The Bond books are a great starting point. Start with the lower age bracket (e.g. 7-8) and then work upwards. Go through questions that your child is struggling with most and check the ones they got wrong so they don’t repeat mistakes.

Get focused

Focus on improving your child’s overall vocabulary, English and Maths skills. These skills aren’t just important for the 11+ but for life. The stronger their English and Maths, the more likely they are to do well.

Find a routine

Get into a routine. This is important so that it becomes a habit for your child to study every day and it helps them to manage homework alongside 11+ work.

Don’t solely D.i.y

Although you don’t have to hire a tutor for long periods of time, it’s definitely a good idea to book a few sessions or at the very least, an assessment. Ideally, if you’re thinking about hiring a tutor on a long-term basis, it’s best to see which tutor your child clicks with and then to join their waiting list early so that your child can have a few lessons with them closer to the time of the exam. Some parents don’t use a tutor at all and that’s fine, but it’s good to have a second opinion from someone who has a strong track record of getting children into the particular school(s) you’re applying for. If you don’t want regular lessons, just book a few sessions or assessments with them and they should be able to give you a report of their observations.

Stay calm

Stay calm and don’t panic because children pick up on these things. Try to encourage your child to have a positive mindset about exams and education in general.

Recommended 11+ Revision Books & Resources

When it comes to preparing for the 11+ exams, it can be very daunting figuring out which materials and resources are best. Here are some of our favourites.

For Early Preparation (Ideal For Years 3 & 4)

The Bond 11+ Bundle (Ages 6-7) - The bundles include all four subjects (English, Maths, Verbal and Non-Verbal Reasoning)

The Bond 11+ Bundle (Ages 7-8)

The Bond Bundle (Ages 8-9)

The Bond Bundle (Ages 9-10)

For Generation Preparation and Revision (Years 5 and above)

The Bond Bundle (Ages 10-11)

Practice Papers For CEM

Practice Papers For GL Assessment

Quick Practice Tests For GL Assessment

Bond No Nonsense English

Rapid Tests NVR

For ISEB & Independent School Exam Preparation

Bond Verbal Reasoning (age 11-12)

Galore Park (English) (ISEB)

Galore Park (Maths) ISEB

Recommended Vocabulary Books

The Cadwaladr Quests by SL Ager (Tangled Time)

The Cadwaladr Quests by SL Ager (Race For Gold)

Vocabulary Flashcards

Here’s to your child’s success!

The Tutoress Team.

How To Help Your Child Improve Their Comprehension Skills (Audio)

Happy Sunday!

I’ve been thinking about recoding audios instead of written blog posts for a long time and finally had the chance to record one today.

In this audio, I discuss:

  • The tactics that parents can use to help their child engage with literature and improve their comprehension skills.

  • Strategies that students can use to improve their comprehension skills and score higher marks.

If your child struggles with comprehension (especially inference, elaboration and deduction) then this is for you.

Here’s a summary of some of the tips I share:

  • Be involved in your child’s learning, especially with regards to their reading. Let them read to you as often as possible.

  • Read in short bursts rather than forcing your child to read for long periods. It’s better to read little and often than not at all.

  • Read a wide variety of texts including poetry, biographies, newspapers and age-appropriate magazines/comics.

  • Incorporate your child’s passions, interests and hobbies into their reading - make it fun.

  • Be strategic about approaching exam questions so that your child can maximise their scores (I talk about this in a bit of depth so it’s worth listening to hear the tips shared).

I hope the audio is useful and if you have any questions or comments, please click on the comment box below and share them.

Here’s to your child’s success!

Victoria, The Tutoress.